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We’ve all been betrayed in one way or another. Some situations are worse than others. But, all things being equal, it’s better to be safe than sorry. There’s an old saying in the real estate industry, “Buyers are liars.” (Although, this is true in just about any line of work, law, financial, retail, and countless others.) The point being, human nature is what it is and there’s just no way around it. Why It’s so Important to Avoid Liars Okay, you can probably think of a dozen reasons liars can be trouble. They cause feelings of betrayal, anger, resentment, regret, and basically a whole host of negatives. But, even if you’re able to get past the personal hurt, there’s the logistical fallout. The vast majority of customers are truthful. But the lying happens often enough to get under your skin. What’s more, deceitful customers pose a risk to your business. If they’re willing to lie to you, what does that say about their character? Would they also be willing to fabricate an errors-and-omissions claim for personal profit? —EOforLess.com Such consequences include but not limited to: being embarrassed by peers, trouble with client relations, upset in the workplace vis-à-vis team members, and plenty more circumstances. Plus, just a single lie can hurt your bottom line in a serious way. How to Tell When a New Business Client is Lying to You So, how do you spot a lie before it causes all sorts of trouble in your business? Well, it isn’t easy, there’s no question about it. But, there are some ways to tell when a client is lying to you, like the following: It sounds too good to be true. Okay, this is probably cliché’ but it’s nevertheless true. When someone tells you something that sounds too good to be true, it more than likely isn’t true. What’s most problematic is that in the moment, it’s easy to fall for. Their social media is a red flag. Some con artists make their lives to look out-of-this-world, luxurious and exciting. Others have absolutely no social media presence at all. In either case, it can tip you off to someone who is trying to hide something because there’s no information at all. Or, a person who is trying to fool everyone else by making their life look irresistibly envious. There’s difficulty answering simple questions. Here’s another bit of advice you’ll hear from experts on the subject of lying — the fibbers might have a lot of trouble with answering simple questions. (Conversely, when there’s inconsistent but a lot of detail, that’s also a telltale sign.) His or her past tells a completely different story. If you have a bad feeling, listen to your inner voice and get a bit of background from people in his or her past (if possible). Just asking a few key questions can tell you a lot, a whole lot. What other advice do you have to offer through your experiences? Please comment and let others know! Interested in learning more about business? Then just visit Waters Business Consulting Group.

The world paid close attention to the summit between President Trump and Kim Jong Un. Regardless of its ultimate outcome, there’s a lesson going on every entrepreneur should learn. Namely, how to avoid snakes in business. The Fable of the Scorpion and the Frog They come by different names: charlatans, cheats, hustlers, swindlers, and more. For those who’ve not heard it, the fable of the scorpion and the frog weaves a short, cautionary tale. A scorpion needs to cross a river and asks a frog for a lift. The frog objects, saying the scorpion will sting and kill him. Regardless of their specific methods, con artists typically depend on their abilities to charm, intimidate, and rapidly spin convincing lies. More often than not, con artists are successful because well-meaning staff members accidentally provide crucial information in an attempt to assist them. Ultimately, the best way to protect your business from con artists is to make your team aware that they exist. CEOs and their team members should be constantly vigilant about what they share and with whom. —Forbes.com But, the scorpion points out, if he were to sting the frog, both would drown in the river. The frog reluctantly agrees and midway, the scorpion stings him. The frog asks why and the scorpion replies, “It’s my nature, I’m a scorpion.” How to Avoid Con Artists to Protect Your Business Now, con men cleverly disguise their true natures. They conceal their actual motives and that’s what makes them so difficult to spot. But, there are usually at least one or two (even more) warning signs. Here are a few ways to avoid con artists to protect your business: Listen to your gut. Con men know how to read people — it’s a necessary trait. So, they are careful to convince. Which means, it’s not easy to spot the scheme straight away. But, your gut feeling might be all you need to avoid becoming a victim. Put things into perspective. This is another way of saying, “If it sounds too good to be true, it probably is.” In other words, if you hear something that seems to be too good, put it into perspective. More particularly, place it up against reality. If it’s like trying to hammer a square peg into a round hole, you have your answer. Don’t hesitate to ask around. Shysters need to move on and move quickly before word spreads. While it might not be comfortable, ask around. Do a little digging if you get a funny feeling to see if others had a bad experience. It’s worth your time and effort in the long run. Trust but verify. Along the same lines is to verify. Check out what they’re selling to learn if it’s genuine or just a hustle. With a small amount of sleuthing, you can save yourself a lot of grief. How do you spot charlatans? What additional advice would you give others about avoiding con artists? Please share your thoughts and experiences by commenting! Interested in learning more about business? Then just visit Waters Business Consulting Group.