Fill in the blank. Angry, anxious, cheapskate, short-tempered, impatient, annoying, hard-to-please. No one enjoys dealing with difficult business clients, but sometimes we have to. These clients can be demanding, angry, and anxious. They can sap our energy and make us feel like we’re going crazy. But don’t worry – there are strategies for how to deal with them. Running a Business Means Dealing with Challenges No one ever said that running a business would be easy. In fact, it can often be downright difficult to deal with the various challenges and situations that come up. Whether you’re struggling to keep afloat or trying to figure out how to take your company to the next level, there are some effective ways to deal with difficult business situations. Many small business owners have ‘em—you know, the clients who make you cringe when you see that they’re calling. The ones who drain your energy, criticize everything, and are slow to pay. Difficult customers exist in every business, for every company, and even though you may want to kick them to the curb some days, you know that it’s better to keep them if you can. So, how might you keep your difficult clients and your sanity? —American Express The key attributes are persistence and patience. Entrepreneurs who stay the course but don’t rush into things tend to be the most successful over the long term. They push when necessary and recognize futility for what it is. In other words, they act appropriately to the circumstances they experience and do not try to bend reality. Best Strategies for Managing Impossible Clients Dealing with difficult business clients can be a nightmare. They can be demanding, angry, and anxious, and they can really put a damper on your day. However, with the right strategies in place, you can manage them effectively and keep them from ruining your business relationships, like the following: Keep your cool. One of the most important things to remember when dealing with difficult clients is to stay calm and collected. If you start getting angry or frustrated, it will only make the situation worse. Take a few deep breaths and try to relax. This will help you think more clearly and come up with a plan of action. Put on their shoes. Another thing to keep in mind is that these clients are just people. They have their own problems, and they’re probably stressed out too. Try to put yourself in their shoes and see things from their point of view. This will help you understand where they’re coming from so you can better address the problem at hand. Don’t retaliate in anger. If possible, avoid getting into arguments with these clients. You might think this is impossible, but it can be done. Stay calm and collected — even if they’re yelling at you or cussing you out. If necessary, take a break from the situation. Politely end the phone call or meeting and go for walk outside. This will give both parties time to cool down and reset. Walk the walk, talk the talk. Finally, always try to stay professional. These clients are probably already angry and frustrated, so don’t add to the problem by being rude or unprofessional. Address the issue at hand in a polite and respectful manner. You’ll be surprised how much this can help diffuse the situation. What other strategies would you use to deal with difficult customers? Please, take a moment to share your thoughts and experiences so others can benefit from your perspective! Interested in learning more about business? Then just visit Waters Business Consulting Group.

“You’re not responsible for the irresponsibility of others.” Or, “You can only control you, not other people.” Both are great pieces of advice to live by. Except, when you’re in a position of leadership. When you’re in charge, you are responsible for the actions of others. It’s a stark contrast to the peer-to-peer world. Because, your employees aren’t your peers. Sure, they’re good people. But, they aren’t your equal. At least, in terms of business structure. You are the authority. So, when a team member is irresponsible, you’re the one the customer will blame. It’s not fair, but it’s reality. Why Employees Act Irresponsibly Everyone does something irresponsible at some point. But, there are people who just can’t seem to get it together long-term. However, these are the exceptions, rather than the rule, a tiny percentage by comparison. You might have even been one of them, but eventually “grew” out of that phase. In almost every workplace, there is bound to be someone who isn’t pulling their own weight. When you’re an ambitious, hard-working [business owner] who is committed to growing your career and the company, it’s frustrating to work with someone who seems interested in only doing the bare minimum. —Fast Company People act irresponsibly because they just don’t take their jobs seriously. To them, it’s just a paycheck — a paycheck they can get almost anywhere. Of course, this is very short sighted but it speaks to their mindset and overall attitude. When that personality shows up in your business, you’ll have to deal with it. There is no passing it off. How to Deal with an Irresponsible Employee If you’re in this unenviable position, you’ll need to deal with the situation directly. While it’s tempting to pass this off to a subordinate who is above the person in question, letting him or her know their behavior is known at the top is very powerful. (This alone could be enough to correct him or her.) But, it’s best to be clear. Here’s how to deal with an irresponsible employee: Put the onus on him or her. Ask him or her how they can improve. Let them be a part of the solution right from the beginning. If they are unwilling or standoffish, that’s a big red flag that probably signals his or her time at the company is coming to an end. Persuade but don’t preach. You can (and should) remind him or her of the company’s policies and procedures. But explain why, instead of just hitting him or her with a litany of do’s and don’ts. Enter into a discussion rather than just making proclamations. Always lead by example. This is something you should already be doing routinely. Showing leadership not only helps others to reach their goals, it inspires others to succeed in more ways than one. Otherwise, you’re not really leading the company, you’re just a figurehead and people will instinctively understand that fact. Follow-up regularly. Obviously, you’ll need to follow-up with him or her. But, think twice about doing so on a set schedule. The element of surprise will motivate him or her to do the right thing. If they don’t, it means you’re dealing with someone who just doesn’t care and isn’t a true asset to the business. What other suggestions do you have for dealing with an irresponsible employee? Please go ahead and share your thoughts and experiences by commenting! Interested in learning more about business? Then just visit Waters Business Consulting Group.