Help! My Sibling is Sabotaging Our Small Business – What Should I Do? We all know that running a small business can be challenging. It requires a lot of hard work, dedication, and the right team to make it successful. But what happens when the person who is supposed to be your right-hand man or woman turns out to be the one sabotaging your business? Below, we’ll discuss some practical steps you can take if you find yourself in this unfortunate situation. Recognizing the Signs of Sabotage Before we dive into the solutions, let’s first discuss the signs that your sibling might be sabotaging your business. Here are some common indicators that something is seriously awry and that you’re suspicions are probably valid: Your sibling consistently misses deadlines or fails to complete tasks. He or she spreads negative gossip or talks poorly about the business to others. They withhold important information or resources from you. Your sister or brother makes decisions that negatively impact the business without consulting you. They take credit for your ideas or successes and do so without including you or specifically attempt to exclude your time and effort. If you notice any of these behaviors in your sibling, it might be time to take action. But, don’t just leap without thinking things through. You need to take a step back and look at the entire situation with a realistic perspective. Addressing the Issue with Your Sibling The first step in dealing with a sabotaging sibling is to have an open and honest conversation with them. Make sure to approach the conversation calmly and objectively, and avoid making accusations or placing blame. Instead, focus on how their behavior is affecting the business and your relationship. During the conversation, try to understand the reasons behind their actions. Perhaps they are feeling overwhelmed or frustrated with their role in the business. Or maybe they are dealing with personal issues that are affecting their work. Whatever the reason, try to work together to find a solution that benefits both the business and your relationship. Creating a Plan of Action Once you’ve had a conversation with your brother or sister, it’s time to create a plan of action. This plan should address any issues that were brought up during the conversation and outline clear expectations for both of you moving forward. Some things to consider when creating your plan of action include: Clearly defining each person’s role and responsibilities within the business. Establishing regular check-ins to discuss progress and address any concerns. Setting up a system for open communication and feedback. Identifying any areas where additional support or resources may be needed. Remember, the goal of this plan is to create a healthy and productive working environment for both you and your sibling. It’s not – by any means – to establish a rivalry or force a hierarchy. Seeking Outside Help If you’ve tried addressing the issue with your sibling and creating a plan of action, but things are still not improving, it may be time to seek outside help. This could mean hiring a business coach or consultant to help you navigate the situation, or even seeking the advice of a professional mediator if the situation is particularly difficult. Remember, there is no shame in asking for help. Running a small business is hard enough without the added stress of dealing with a sabotaging sibling. Seeking outside help can provide you with the guidance and support you need to overcome this challenge. What We’ve Learned Dealing with a sabotaging sibling in your small business can be a difficult and emotional experience. However, by recognizing the signs, addressing the issue, creating a plan of action, and seeking outside help if needed, you can overcome this challenge and continue to build a successful business. Want to Accomplish More? Do you want your company to grow faster and earn more while you spend more time with your family doing all the things you started your business to do? We can make that dream a reality. Give us 30 minutes and we will show you how to get your life back. Skeptical? Good! Put us to the test. You can call us for your free appointment at 602-435-5474, or, if you prefer, send us an email. You can also visit us at Waters Business Consulting Group to learn more about us and the services we offer.

A substantial percentage of established business owners and fledgling entrepreneurs have experienced significant change over the course of the past year. Some had to make very difficult decisions and enact hard changes in order to survive. Conversely, some have been in the fortuitous position to thrive. Regardless of their circumstances, too many entrepreneurs and business owners struggle to find free time. Fortunately, there are some effective strategies to find more free time and enjoy it. The Dreaded Free Time Paradox The most common problems business owners have when it comes to free time is either not recognizing it, or failing to indulge it. In other words, when there’s free time available, business owners and entrepreneurs most often either prefer to spend it working, simply defaulting to a workaholic mindset. So, it’s often the case that they don’t have any free time, as much as it is they won’t take time to actually enjoy it. Time freedom is about spending your time doing what you really love doing with the clients and people who mean the most to you. Having more freedom of time is about having the ability to live a full life and have the time to pursue other interests outside of work. But finding time freedom for entrepreneurs can be tough. — Thrive Global This creates a cyclical scenario where any ostensible free time is put either toward their work or, is spent on distractions. That’s often more advice given about business owners seeking free time. That is to say, to identify and eliminate distractions, because they divert away from the task or relaxation at hand. Because entrepreneurs are action-minded people, they mistake any type of work as being valuable. Of course, that’s just not true. 3 Ways Business Owners and Entrepreneurs can Find more Free Time The advice usually given to free up time is to rely on technology, innovative tools of the trade, and eliminate redundancies. Those are all great ways to help streamline your operation, but these mostly work around the margins, and don’t address the core problems. Here are three ways business owners and entrepreneurs can find more free time: Stick to a schedule. It’s very difficult, if not impossible, to find free time in an unstructured environment. The old Friedrich Nietzsche philosophy of “out of chaos comes order” simply doesn’t apply to this situation. So, get yourself on a schedule and follow a routine. It can be flexible and should not be rigid, but should provide you with structure. This will greatly cut down on distractions, and force you to focus on the highest priorities, and work your way down to the lowest. Put your business on a budget. Before you scoff, remember this — a budget doesn’t always mean spending less, it means always spending smartly. Too many business owners either spend their time worrying about their finances. Others know their general financial situation, but dwell on every possible contingency. In either case, they waste a great deal of time worrying, because they really don’t have a plan for their company finances. Money just comes in and goes out, but with very little accountability. Creating a realistic budget allows you to operate your business with a lot more certainty, and that in turn, will create more free time. Hire (back) help. You might have responded to the pandemic and ensuing chaos in a number of ways. Perhaps, it was necessary to reduce your payroll and take on more responsibilities yourself. Or, you’ve been taking on more work personally, because you haven’t found the time to hire people to help. The longer this unnecessary stress goes on, the more you risk burning out. It not only steals away valuable downtime, it is also counterproductive. So, get yourself on a schedule, lay out a budget, and hire on some help when and where needed. What other suggestions do you have for creating more free time? Please take a moment to share your thoughts and experiences so others can benefit from your unique perspective! Interested in learning more about business? Then just visit Waters Business Consulting Group.