You have taken over the family business. At least ostensibly. But, it appears that your parents (maybe one in particular), has yet to truly let go of the company. That is to say, your parents collectively, or mom or dad, are still running the day-to-day operations, even though they’re not supposed to do so any longer. It’s driving you crazy, and what’s more, it’s beginning to create a confusing situation among your employees. Worse still, you’re not getting the control and respect you deserve. So, what can you do? Common Family Business Challenges When a child or children take over the family business from their parents, it is not at all uncommon for the parents to stick around for a little while. However, if they continue with their normal presence and engagement, it can create a number of problems. First and foremost of course, is the fact that successors aren’t seen as true authority figures. But, that’s not all. While business owners typically make more money by selling to a third party, many want to keep their companies in the family. ‘If it’s a growing and thriving business, it should appreciate and produce income for the kids,’ says Amelia Heath, a lawyer in Portland, Ore., with Davis Wright Tremaine. ‘If the kids are involved, then giving them the business can be a good choice.’ —Kiplinger Because the children’s role has been marginalized, they don’t feel comfortable or empowered to make any needed changes. Obviously, the employee’s disposition at large will also be affected by this type of situation. In short, it creates an awkward and uncomfortable scenario that just can’t be tolerated. How to Take Over a Family Business from Parents Who won’t Let Go If you’re experiencing these types of circumstances, you’re probably very unhappy, to say the least. Though you appreciate your parents’ past and current contributions, you’re now the one that is supposed to be running the business. Even though they’ve passed it off to you, they’re still holding on to their previous roles. So, here are a few helpful suggestions: Have “the talk.” While it’s either the last thing you want to do, or you’re eager to jump into it, you’ll have to have a firm yet caring discussion. Get the point across that you greatly appreciate all they have done and would also be equally grateful to help you out as you need it, but you must take on the position they’ve passed to you to honor their legacy. In other words, treat them with respect and gracefully allow them to transition out of the company. Speak with your employees. Next, it will probably be necessary to speak to the employees in much the same way. That is to say, that you are now the one that is in charge of the business and they should look to you. Give them a little leeway with this, because if your parents are still even marginally involved, they’ll naturally feel obligated to listen to them. However, given a little time, the entire dynamic will change and the employees will respect your place as the head of the company. Get all your vendors up-to-date. The same thing holds true for vendors. Because they have a long-standing relationship with your parents, they will also feel more comfortable doing business with your folks rather than you. Just as with the employees, this too will change over time. Make necessary changes incrementally. Another way to make the transition go smoother is to hold off making any big changes in the short term. (At least, those things that can wait.) This way, your parents won’t feel as though they’ve been doing something wrong, or that you’ve been itching to making changes they’ve long resisted. What other suggestions do you have? Please take a moment to share your thoughts and experiences so others can benefit from your perspective! Interested in learning more about business? Then just visit Waters Business Consulting Group

You’ve just discovered one of your best team members has criticized your company on social media. So, you’re wondering what to do about it. Well, that depends if the comments were overall positive or negative. If the former, there’s quite a bit you can do. However, if it’s the latter, there’s relatively little you can do. Read on to learn more about how to deal with employees who criticize their organizations on social media. Dealing with Negative Employee Comments about Your Business Let’s begin with a negative situation. You’ve recently found out a great employee (who you like and trust) has made some really disparaging comments about your company — maybe even directed at you personally — on social media. Now, you’re wondering what to do about it. If the comments are negative and harmful to your business’ reputation, you most definitely need to address the situation immediately. Criticism in the workplace can be constructive if an individual is pointing out concrete inefficiencies and offering suggestions for positive improvements; or criticism can be destructive, when one person tears down and negatively critiques the actions of others while offering no suggestions for positive improvement. —Houston Chronicle Small Business This is a difficult conversation to have, there’s no doubt about it. But, a stern warning might be enough to move past the moment. It’s probably also necessary to talk about his or her future and potential separation from the company, should the behavior continue. While it’s a hard thing to do, derogatory comments simply are not acceptable. So, invite him or her to vent their grievances in private instead of on social media. Dealing with Positive Employee Comments about a Your Business If this is a situation where the comments were critical yet constructive or positive, it’s an entirely different set of circumstances. Since it’s a totally opposite attitude, you might still be personally hurt or feel undermined, but it’s far better than dealing with a completely negative scenario. Here are some effective methods for dealing with a good employee who publicly criticized your business on social media: Make him or her understand the proper context. The very first thing you need to do is to let him or her know that it is not acceptable or appropriate to criticize the company on social media. Instead, the appropriate time and place is right in the workplace, where discussions are private and between colleagues, where such input belongs. Let your employee know your door is always open. Of course, it’s up to you to open your office door and make all your employees understand they have an open-ended invitation to speak with you at any time they feel it is necessary. (Obviously, you’ll need to set some boundaries to ensure there’s mutual respect and interactions remain overall positive.) Solicit feedback from all your team members regularly. While this might be super-obvious, it’s most definitely worth repeating. You cannot operate in your business in a vacuum. It’s not a good dynamic and worse yet, when you don’t listen to the people around you who are in the trenches with you, it’s only going to erode the environment and worsen over time. What other suggestions do you have? How else would you handle such a situation? Please take a moment to share your thoughts and experiences so others can benefit from your unique perspective! Interested in learning more about business? Then just visit Waters Business Consulting Group.

Quite quitting is currently making all the rounds on social media and in corporate environments. And, it’s generating a whole lot of attention. Quite quitting isn’t just the latest buzz phrase, either. (Although, it is a bit misleading, given that it doesn’t mean preparing to turn in a resignation letter. Instead, it means doing as little as possible while still collecting a paycheck. Or, what was previously known as “coasting.”) However, this differs because employees who “coast” usually depart in the near future. Quite quitting is about staying onboard, but performing just enough to get by without being noticed. Quite Quitting Explained The term quiet quitting has only recently emerged and it’s gained quite a bit of traction in a very short time. The phenomenon is thought to arise from the aftereffects of the pandemic and shutdowns, which gave people a lot of time to reflect and reprioritize. The theory goes that employees realized that they can have a more fulfilling life experience by doing less at work and putting emphasis on their personal lives. Not taking your job too seriously has a new name: quiet quitting. The phrase is generating millions of views on TikTok as some young professionals reject the idea of going above and beyond in their careers, labeling their lesser enthusiasm a form of ‘quitting.’ It isn’t about getting off the company payroll, these employees say. In fact, the idea is to stay on it—but focus your time on the things you do outside of the office. —Wall Street Journal Obviously, this has a number of profound effects – not least of which is the fact that businesses are still paying them the same, though their production steadily declines and quality of work will likewise suffer. That’s just an unfortunate reality, but there are also other deleterious effects. Rather than make the person engaging in this practice happier, it will likely have the opposite effect, since numerous studies have clearly shown that work adds value and purpose to people’s lives. So, it is imperative to know the signs of quiet quitting in order to spot it when it starts to manifest, and before it becomes a problem. Top Signs an Employee is Quite Quitting The good news about this new phenomenon is that it’s actually a kind of reincarnation of an age-old problem. As stated above, it was previously known as coasting, something employees did when they were about to leave their position. But, this new version is far more concerning, because the employee who is quiet quitting has no intention of actually leaving their job. So, here are the top warning signs an employee is quietly quitting: They disengage. An employee who previously stayed in the mix and was eagerly part of the day-to-day operations and activity will start to disengage. At first, it might not be obvious. But, over time, managers and business owners will probably notice it. They stop keeping up. Similarly, an employee who is quietly quitting will no longer keep up with the latest that’s going on inside the company. Instead, he or she will fall out of the loop or just remain on the margins in order to appear that he or she is keeping up with what’s happening – even though that’s not what’s really transpiring. They no longer take initiative. This should come as no surprise. By its very definition, quiet quitting means doing as little as possible in order to remain employed but definitely not contributing any more than necessary. Fortunately, this is a fairly easy sign to spot, especially with people who were previously go-getters who now just seem to show up and do the bare minimum. They keep their ideas and opinions private. This sign isn’t overtly obvious, but it does point to the distinct possibility an employee is quietly quitting. However, if it is someone who previously contributed good ideas and shared their thoughts and opinions and now doesn’t, then such a change might be a red flag. What other telltale signs would you say are indicative of quite quitting? Please take a moment to share your thoughts and opinions – and/or experiences – so others can benefit from your suggestions! Interested in learning more about business? Then just visit Waters Business Consulting Group.