Help! My Sibling is Sabotaging Our Small Business – What Should I Do? We all know that running a small business can be challenging. It requires a lot of hard work, dedication, and the right team to make it successful. But what happens when the person who is supposed to be your right-hand man or woman turns out to be the one sabotaging your business? Below, we’ll discuss some practical steps you can take if you find yourself in this unfortunate situation. Recognizing the Signs of Sabotage Before we dive into the solutions, let’s first discuss the signs that your sibling might be sabotaging your business. Here are some common indicators that something is seriously awry and that you’re suspicions are probably valid: Your sibling consistently misses deadlines or fails to complete tasks. He or she spreads negative gossip or talks poorly about the business to others. They withhold important information or resources from you. Your sister or brother makes decisions that negatively impact the business without consulting you. They take credit for your ideas or successes and do so without including you or specifically attempt to exclude your time and effort. If you notice any of these behaviors in your sibling, it might be time to take action. But, don’t just leap without thinking things through. You need to take a step back and look at the entire situation with a realistic perspective. Addressing the Issue with Your Sibling The first step in dealing with a sabotaging sibling is to have an open and honest conversation with them. Make sure to approach the conversation calmly and objectively, and avoid making accusations or placing blame. Instead, focus on how their behavior is affecting the business and your relationship. During the conversation, try to understand the reasons behind their actions. Perhaps they are feeling overwhelmed or frustrated with their role in the business. Or maybe they are dealing with personal issues that are affecting their work. Whatever the reason, try to work together to find a solution that benefits both the business and your relationship. Creating a Plan of Action Once you’ve had a conversation with your brother or sister, it’s time to create a plan of action. This plan should address any issues that were brought up during the conversation and outline clear expectations for both of you moving forward. Some things to consider when creating your plan of action include: Clearly defining each person’s role and responsibilities within the business. Establishing regular check-ins to discuss progress and address any concerns. Setting up a system for open communication and feedback. Identifying any areas where additional support or resources may be needed. Remember, the goal of this plan is to create a healthy and productive working environment for both you and your sibling. It’s not – by any means – to establish a rivalry or force a hierarchy. Seeking Outside Help If you’ve tried addressing the issue with your sibling and creating a plan of action, but things are still not improving, it may be time to seek outside help. This could mean hiring a business coach or consultant to help you navigate the situation, or even seeking the advice of a professional mediator if the situation is particularly difficult. Remember, there is no shame in asking for help. Running a small business is hard enough without the added stress of dealing with a sabotaging sibling. Seeking outside help can provide you with the guidance and support you need to overcome this challenge. What We’ve Learned Dealing with a sabotaging sibling in your small business can be a difficult and emotional experience. However, by recognizing the signs, addressing the issue, creating a plan of action, and seeking outside help if needed, you can overcome this challenge and continue to build a successful business. Want to Accomplish More? Do you want your company to grow faster and earn more while you spend more time with your family doing all the things you started your business to do? We can make that dream a reality. Give us 30 minutes and we will show you how to get your life back. Skeptical? Good! Put us to the test. You can call us for your free appointment at 602-435-5474, or, if you prefer, send us an email. You can also visit us at Waters Business Consulting Group to learn more about us and the services we offer.

High employee turnover is practically normal in some industries. These are mostly entry-level positions, where people only stay for a short time. But, since the global pandemic outbreak and shutdowns, followed by the reopenings, more and more companies have experienced unusual amounts of employee turnover. Although it’s easy to simply blame this abnormality as the source of the problem, there are sometimes underlying issues. It’s just that these remarkably unusual sets of circumstances have finally brought those festering problems to the surface. High Employee Turnover Usually Underscores Underlying Issues High employee turnover may in fact highlight problems within the workplace and not be a reflection of the departing team members themselves. Put another way, it’s not the employees’ faults necessarily, but something in the way the business is run. This isn’t to say it’s always the corporation’s fault, as mentioned above, some industries experience high rates of employee turnover regularly. However, if you’re running a business that does not hire nearly exclusive entry-level workers, and people are quitting after short periods of time, there are probably some good reasons. Companies often thrive based on the talent provided by their employees. Yet, if a company is faced with frequent turnovers, the efficiency and effectiveness of business operations could suffer. Similarly, those companies that maintain a consistent workforce may be able to grow as a result of their employee base performing consistently. Understanding the causes and effects of turnover can help your company develop strategies and policies to increase the odds of keeping the staff members you value. —Houston Chronicle Small Business One of the most difficult things for owners and entrepreneurs alike to see and understand is where their businesses are falling short when it comes to their employees. Ensuring that employees are well taken care of is just as important as serving customers to the best of your abilities. Since employees are the very lifeblood of your business, they should not only be compensated fairly but treated as vital components of your company. 3 Key Reasons Businesses Experience High Employee Turnover Fortunately, high employee turnover usually comes as a result of at least one of three reasons. If any of these are persistent in your business, it’s probably what’s driving your employees to quit after very short tenures. Here are the most common reasons that businesses experience high employee turnover: Compensation. This is the most obvious and is definitely among the top reasons employees don’t stay with their companies. Unfortunately, this doesn’t just apply to hourly workers, but salaried personnel as well. Paying at the bottom of the industry will practically guarantee that new hires become disaffected in short amounts of time and abruptly quit. Paying at the mid to high level of the industry is one of the best ways to avoid this problem, but that might not be applicable to all situations. Businesses already paying well might also consider little perks and incentives outside of pay, such as extra time off, gifts for meeting goals, and other types of incentives. Management. There’s just about nothing worse than bad management. Even people who are compensated very well will not tolerate bad managers for very long. If management does not treat their staff with the respect and professional courtesy they deserve, individuals will simply find other places to go. Bad management not only drives people to leave but also causes them to perform poorly while they’re at the company. So, take a deep look at the management’s style and execution and make changes if necessary. Culture. Company or corporate culture is also a very important factor in employees staying put. Just like bad management, individuals will not tolerate a toxic culture for very long. Even if management treats them well and they are compensated near or at the top of the industry, toxic culture will eventually erode their loyalty and they will leave the company. Although this is one of the most difficult factors to identify, it is essential that businesses foster a positive company culture in order to get the highest level of camaraderie and productivity from employees. What other suggestions do you have for dealing with high employee turnover? Please take a moment to share your personal experiences and relevant thoughts — it could greatly benefit someone else! Interested in learning more about business? Then just visit Waters Business Consulting Group.

“You’re not responsible for the irresponsibility of others.” Or, “You can only control you, not other people.” Both are great pieces of advice to live by. Except, when you’re in a position of leadership. When you’re in charge, you are responsible for the actions of others. It’s a stark contrast to the peer-to-peer world. Because, your employees aren’t your peers. Sure, they’re good people. But, they aren’t your equal. At least, in terms of business structure. You are the authority. So, when a team member is irresponsible, you’re the one the customer will blame. It’s not fair, but it’s reality. Why Employees Act Irresponsibly Everyone does something irresponsible at some point. But, there are people who just can’t seem to get it together long-term. However, these are the exceptions, rather than the rule, a tiny percentage by comparison. You might have even been one of them, but eventually “grew” out of that phase. In almost every workplace, there is bound to be someone who isn’t pulling their own weight. When you’re an ambitious, hard-working [business owner] who is committed to growing your career and the company, it’s frustrating to work with someone who seems interested in only doing the bare minimum. —Fast Company People act irresponsibly because they just don’t take their jobs seriously. To them, it’s just a paycheck — a paycheck they can get almost anywhere. Of course, this is very short sighted but it speaks to their mindset and overall attitude. When that personality shows up in your business, you’ll have to deal with it. There is no passing it off. How to Deal with an Irresponsible Employee If you’re in this unenviable position, you’ll need to deal with the situation directly. While it’s tempting to pass this off to a subordinate who is above the person in question, letting him or her know their behavior is known at the top is very powerful. (This alone could be enough to correct him or her.) But, it’s best to be clear. Here’s how to deal with an irresponsible employee: Put the onus on him or her. Ask him or her how they can improve. Let them be a part of the solution right from the beginning. If they are unwilling or standoffish, that’s a big red flag that probably signals his or her time at the company is coming to an end. Persuade but don’t preach. You can (and should) remind him or her of the company’s policies and procedures. But explain why, instead of just hitting him or her with a litany of do’s and don’ts. Enter into a discussion rather than just making proclamations. Always lead by example. This is something you should already be doing routinely. Showing leadership not only helps others to reach their goals, it inspires others to succeed in more ways than one. Otherwise, you’re not really leading the company, you’re just a figurehead and people will instinctively understand that fact. Follow-up regularly. Obviously, you’ll need to follow-up with him or her. But, think twice about doing so on a set schedule. The element of surprise will motivate him or her to do the right thing. If they don’t, it means you’re dealing with someone who just doesn’t care and isn’t a true asset to the business. What other suggestions do you have for dealing with an irresponsible employee? Please go ahead and share your thoughts and experiences by commenting! Interested in learning more about business? Then just visit Waters Business Consulting Group.