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Beware Entrepreneurs, This is Your Biggest Failing Point (but You Can Get Past It)

What is an entrepreneur’s biggest enemy? There are many answers one could give to the question. Including things like self-doubt, lack of capital, not enough focus, and many more. But surprisingly, one of the biggest entrepreneurial foes is themselves. This comes in various forms, but one that’s particularly counterproductive is a rigid and unceasing belief that they can make anything work, including relationships. Usually, this is where toxic relationships come into the picture, but instead, we’re talking about relationships that just don’t work out for anyone involved.

Final Endings can be Just as Healthy as New Beginnings

Dr. Henry Cloud has spoken and written extensively about what he calls “necessary endings.” Basically, what this means, is putting an end to any relationship that is not a healthy one. And, it is applicable to the business world more so than one might imagine. That is to say, that sometimes putting a final end to a business relationship is also the birth of a healthy new beginning.

Failed relationships in business have high costs, both financial and emotional –expensive golden parachutes, failed hires who waste costly training, partnerships and investments that lead to misery and conflict, investments that make you wish you had put your money anywhere else, buyouts that lead to the destruction of a business you’ve nurtured over decades. —Forbes

Put another way, entrepreneurs are very stubborn people. They believe they can fix just about any scenario or situation. This even extends to their professional relationships, even when those relationships fail to work out time and again. Business owners mistakenly believe that just by making a few tweaks, they’ll be able to parlay productive relationships with individuals that have previously been failures. Although this isn’t so, it’s their rationalization about their own prowess that leaves them to try over and over.

How to Effectively End Bad Business Relationships

Fortunately, there are ways to identify and end bad business relationships. The trick is to rely on other people’s good judgment and embrace counterintuitive ideas. With a different perspective, it’s entirely possible to identify and end just about any bad business relationship. Here’s how:

Stop the cycle. Instead of continuing the relationship on with the same person and experiencing the same bad results, make a resolution to realign your relationship. After all, it’s possible to remain friends, yet not be in business together. This doesn’t require an uncomfortable confrontation. Rather, gradually transition from a working relation into a just a casual one.
Ask others for help. There are people in your life who you trust. Rely on their good judgment to help you see your blind spots when it comes to failed working relationships. This will probably be difficult to hear and more so to accept, but having someone else’s perspective may be enough to convince you that it just won’t work out.
Try switching roles. If it seems like a particular relationship with someone in various business ventures fails time and again, perhaps it’s the wrong personality. Confide in someone else and bring them into that other person’s role in order to experience a new dynamic. Doing so might also help to reveal some of your own shortcomings.
Step outside your comfort zone. It could very well be that the reason you and this other person can’t seem to get things to work out in a business environment is because you’re only comfortable in certain situations. While it’s usually beneficial to rely on others’ strengths where you have weaknesses, it’s also advantageous to overcome those weaknesses whenever possible.
Look at the big picture. Having to end a relationship, even a bad one, can be very difficult. This is particularly true if you have an affinity for the other person, even when things just don’t work out. However, this type of unproductive relationship will likely only continue to disappoint rather than reward. Don’t see it as a failure on your part. Instead, accept it for what it is, good and bad, and find a realistic way to move on.

What other suggestions do you have for ending bad business relationships? Please take a moment to share your thoughts and experiences. Your unique perspective might help one or several people out of toxic situations!

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Top Ways to Deal with Critics

August 9, 2017 No Comments

There’s simply no way to run a business without dealing with critics. As an entrepreneur, you’ll face doubt in many forms. You’ll face inner doubt, ruminate over which next step to take, receive less-than-positive feedback, and plenty more. What’s more, you’ll have to do so much more, like find ways to keep company secrets safe and navigate through industry changes. Running a business isn’t for the faint of heart and when critics chime-in, that’s precisely where it will hurt most. Top Ways to Deal with Critics Let’s face it, there is no shortage of bad news to discourage you. For instance, if you dream of opening a retail shop, no doubt the latest news out of that sector is troubling. But, it’s commonplace for unpleasant experiences to unfold. This certainly isn’t to say it’s all bad all the time. In fact, that’s part of the problem. When things are going good most of the time, criticism is the biggest wet blanket. Doubters rain on your parade and you scramble for cover. Criticism is part of life, but often times being criticized can make us feel like we aren’t good enough, like we’ve done something wrong, or even cause us to be uncertain about our future. People often take criticism as a personal attack, but in reality, criticism can often be positive. —Fast Company While it’s normal to experience periods of struggle, eventually, you’ll fight through and start to win. Any setback serves as a valuable lesson going forward. And, over time, you’ll enjoy long periods of success without much or any trouble. Then, seemingly out of nowhere, the critics will appear. That’s when you need to be prepared. Otherwise, you’ll become too distracted and won’t have the energy to fully function. So, here are some of the top ways to deal with critics: Teach them, no matter your feelings. Okay, so you don’t particularly like the person who is criticizing you (or your business). And, it’s natural to take it personally because it is your business. But, don’t let this become a missed opportunity. Instead, redirect your feelings and teach him or her. You’ll probably enjoy some accomplishment while turning a critic into a fan. Tell them the truth and do not be fake. You’ll receive at least a little criticism because of your success since it breeds jealousy. That jealousy will manifest into criticism and possibly into anger, even hate. If this does happen, don’t make the mistake of defending your success. Instead, talk about your failures to allow them to relate. Accept that doubters will always be there. Keep in mind that doubt is not the same as an insult (though you just might feel insulted). Rather, doubt is a disbelief in something unfamiliar. And, it isn’t personal, just a way of expressing uncertainty. So, find out what’s doubted and use it to teach. Trial and error isn’t perfect and that’s okay. Sometimes, a new idea can come off as foolish, gimmicky, or silly. But, trial and error are part of business. You need to experiment to know what does and does not work. If you receive criticism, accept it and just move on. Know when it’s time to give a sincere apology. If the criticism is legitimate, you might need to apologize. Know when it’s the right time to say you’re sorry and be sincere when you do. You’ll learn from the experience and move past the criticism, which are good things. How do you deal with critics? What strategies do you use to cope with doubters and doubt? What are your most useful experiences with critics? Please share your thoughts and experiences by leaving a comment. Interested in learning more about business? Then just visit Waters Business Consulting Group. [shareaholic app=”follow_buttons” id=”26833294″]

How to Deal with Employee Ghosting

July 15, 2018 No Comments

Employee ghosting is a scary situation. It’s spooky because it’s so awkward and strange. If you haven’t heard about employee ghosting, you’re certainly not alone. Although, it’s a trend which appears like it’s on the rise. Basically, this is a workplace phenomenon born from personal relationships in this day and age or IRL. (That’s In Real Life — BTW or By the Way.) And, it’s possible you might just face this particular scenario. So, it’s best to err on the side of caution and take proactive measures to limit the fallout. Employee Ghosting Explained Before we get to how to deal with it, let’s first explain employee ghosting. It’s simply when an established team member, a new employee, or a fresh hire doesn’t show up, without notice or any forewarning. It’s actually a practice that’s been present in the dating world for quite some time. One person simply up and disappears, without any indication. Poof. All communications are cut off, all of a sudden. In fields ranging from food service to finance, recruiters and hiring managers say a tightening job market and a sustained labor shortage have contributed to a surge in professionals abruptly cutting off contact and turning silent–the type of behavior more often associated with online dating than office life. —Inc.com This has found its way into the professional workplace. And, it raises a number of concerns. Of course, the first is being a person short. Then, there’s the matter of reconciling or trying to make sense of a nonsensical move. Moreover, it makes your team members wonder just what the ghost knows they don’t yet know themselves. In other words, just what reason could cause a person to up and disappear? How to Deal with Employee Ghosting Now, let’s get to dealing with employee ghosting. After all, if it does happen, you certainly don’t want to be caught totally off guard. Here are some helpful suggestions for how to deal with employee ghosting: Create a backup plan. At some point, you’re going to deal with a sudden change that comes out of nowhere. So, it’s best to have a plan in-place. Get with one or more team members and create a backup plan that’s reasonable and actionable so it can be implemented, if necessary. Be prepared to reward. Of course, if someone doesn’t show up, someone else will have to shoulder the load. Which means they’ll have to work more. Make it worthwhile by rewarding them appropriately. A gift card, an extra paid day off, or a bigger bonus. Create a high trust culture. When employees call in sick or they are late, handle this professionally and according to your policy with consistency, but don’t make a mountain out of a mole hill. The same is true with employee mistakes. Be careful to react negatively or to belittle an employee who has made an honest mistake because these negative acts cause employees to not disclose the truth and hide their mistakes … even not showing up for work for fear of retribution. A safe and healthy work environment with open communication helps to foster high trust in the work place. Formulate a way forward. You can’t just rely on a temporary stop-gap solution because it isn’t tenable. You’ll need to formulate a plan for how to transition and proceed in a way that isn’t too interruptive. Stay calm and breathe deep. It’s an unfortunate situation and an uncomfortable one, just like when you have to tell your employees you’ve fired someone. But, you can make it past the setback. Start by remaining calm. Take a deep breath and handle it coolly. Have you experienced this strange trend? How do you deal with it? Or, what other suggestions do you have? Please share your thoughts by commenting! Interested in learning more about business? Then just visit Waters Business Consulting Group.

How to Turn Your Idea into a Business

January 3, 2018 No Comments

It’s easy to turn your skills into a business. That’s one thing. You already have methodologies and experience. But, what if you just have an idea? Something you can’t seem to shake? It’s there day-in and day-out. You simply can’t get it out of your head. But, you’re afraid to tell anyone because you’re not sure it has merit. Or, it’s a take on something else that’s a proven model. Whatever the case, you’re eager to turn your idea into a business. How to Know when It’s Time to Start a Business The biggest barrier people have to starting-up a business isn’t money. It’s not a lack of motivation. The largest barriers are self-imposed. It’s over thinking things. In other words, a kind of paralysis by analysis. People come up with all sorts of reasons they can’t start a business. Funds. Time. Competition. Take your pick because there’s no lack of excuses. Which ultimately, that’s what these so-called reasons really are in practice. Ideas are just ideas. An idea is the seed of a successful product or service. Without proper care and maintenance, it will not bloom. Ideas require solid research of the target market, a good strategy and a sound business plan, without which, ideas cannot go much further. If you want to start a business and make a go of it, you need more than just an idea. —Entrepreneur.com We’ve all heard the success stories about entrepreneurs who didn’t give up. Take Walt Disney for example. Turned down by lender after lender, he never gave up. So many years later, we all see his crazy idea as a terrific business. Now, those theme parks are the best of the best. But, it all started with an idea — nothing more. How to Turn Your Idea into a Business Of course, you might not think your idea is necessarily business worthy. However, you don’t know until you give it a genuine try. Although it’s intimidating, there’s a big reward just waiting if you put in the effort. Here’s a few suggestions for how you can turn your idea into a business: Ask friends and family for feedback. Don’t let fear stand in your way. Your idea needs feedback. If you speak with a few people about it, you’ll learn something interesting. This is a great way to flesh it out. And, it might even give you more ideas that contribute in a wonderful way. Try to find working versions of it. If your idea isn’t out there as a reality yet, chances are excellent there’s something like it. Look for similar businesses and see how they operate. Even if it’s a new take on a common business model, you’ll learn through some simple research. Start by giving it away for free. Next, put it into action. Set aside some time to give it away for nothing (or a very cheap price). When you put it into practice, you’ll see where it naturally takes you. And, you’ll also learn if it can actually be monetized. Be ready to rework it along the way. Of course, you’ll need to give yourself permission to make mistakes. Use them to your advantage to better the service or product. As you do it over and over again, you’ll refine the process. What other suggestions do you have to turn an idea into a business? Where did you start your company? How can someone set up for success with just an idea? Please share your thoughts and experiences by commenting! Interested in learning more about business? Then just visit Waters Business Consulting Group.